A person with whom one spent a lot of time or life or travels with. Each of a pair of things intended to complement or match each other – a companion volume”. Associate, fellow, better half…
The thing that counts Most in the pursuit of – Happiness is choosing the right Companion … A better half.
In my words a true companion is your better half… your life partner with whom you spent your whole life. With whom you plan your family, one with whom you can share each and every thought or feelings of yours, whether its logical or stupid. That’s your true partner, with whom you don’t need to think before you speak. With whom you share life’s ups and downs, with a smile on face, as you know your partner is with you to support and stand strong in any situation with you. Which makes life’s so smooth and easy.
“God has made this beautiful relationship in this World – a couple”, to make the journey of life, beautiful and easy-going. So that each one can support one another, by landing one’s hand to each other. Both compliment each other.
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‘Women is the companion of man, gifted with equal mental capacity’ – Mahatma Gandhi
But how many understands this fact. there are very few people in this World who gets a true life partner, a true companion. What if one get’s a wrong partner !! There are very few people who understands this beautiful relationship truly, and values it. Some couple in this World keeps on leaving their fake life just for the sake of their status in the society, keeping their formal relationship. Some keep on compromising just for the sake of their children. Some gets separated taking a wise decision. Instead of pulling and stretching the life for fake values… its better to separate, and leave on our own terms. And the rest are the lucky ones, who really got their soul mates.
There are very few people who understand that a girl getting married to a man has to struggle a lot more than man. A girl coming to the boy’s house, has so many things to adjust with. She leaves her house where she spent her childhood and many memories, she leaves her parents and comes to a new house, and has to adjust with all new people and new place, she comes only with a hope that her partner will be with her, to make things easier. She marries a man with so many dreams.
And the parents of the girl, who spent their whole life – struggling to save money for the daughter’s marriage, and keep on dreaming of giving her a good family and finding a good, well-educated boy – which will take care and look after their daughter with love and care.
Above all when this companion proves to be a wrong person, what happens of the girl, what happens of her dreams …. When a man does not value, the love of her wife…
It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations.
‘I love to be alone. I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude’ – Henry David Thoreau
‘Never have a companion that casts you in a shade’ – Baltasar
I strongly believe instead of pulling a wrong relationship which leads to a dead-end. It’s far better to end that relation, instead of showering your love on a person who does not value or deserve your LOVE, and move forward, so that you can give a good life to your children. And lead a happy life on your own strength and principles… instead…